在雅思口语中,礼貌是一道常考题,从part1到part3都有相关问题,但同时这也是一道抽象的难题,很多考生会觉得无所适从,不知从何谈起,下面小编就雅思口语相关问题为大家做详细介绍。后期小编会针对英国留学条件做相关介绍哦,有需要的同学可以继续关注。
1、What is politeness in your opinion?你认为什么是礼貌?
有句话说,让别人舒服的程决定了你人生的高度。所以礼貌就是让周围的人都觉得受到尊重,有面子。帮助我们减少麻烦和冲突,和我们接触的人也会尊重我们。
Politeness means you dont make others uncomfortable around you, instead they would feel respected and have the honor. They help us to have less trouble from others, and those who associate with us will also learn how to behave well and respect the others. including eating quietly and neatly, paying attention to the person who is talking to you, not gossiping, laughing even if the joke isnt funny. Not jump the queue, Not smoke in the public, and so on.
2、When you were child who taught you to be polite?
一般都是父母或者祖父母,以及幼儿园小学的老师教我们从小要懂礼貌。注意要使用过去式。然后据一些简单的例子。
想起有一个小故事,记者问:“在您一生中,最重要的东西是在哪所大学、哪个实验室里学到的?”一位白发苍苍的诺贝尔奖获得者平静地回答:“是在幼儿园。” 记者非常惊奇:“为什么是在幼儿园?您认为您在幼儿园里学到了什么呢?”老人答:“在幼儿园里,我学会了很多很多。比如,把自己的东西分一半给小伙伴们;不是自己的东西不要拿;东西要放整齐;饭前要洗手;午饭后要休息;做了错事要表示歉意;学习要多思考,要仔细观察大自然。我认为,我学到的全部东西就是这些。”
Actually, my parents and teachers in my kindergarten and primary school instructed me how to behave myself. for example, they told me to share my stuff in half with my playmates, don’t take others’ stuff without asking, say sorry when I did something wrong, and so forth.
3、Why is it important to be polite to people?
其实这个问题是问礼貌的重要性。首先,一个人的言行体现了他的素质。在与别人相处时,高素质的人既受欢迎又受尊敬。这样,交谈时别人会很舒服,也可以减少两个人间的社交距离,使谈话变得更轻松,可以说礼貌是坚实关系的基础。其次,你对别人有礼貌,别人也会以礼相待,久而久之,这可以形成良好的社会风气。
To begin with , the words and deeds(言行) of a person show his quality. When getting along with others, people with high quality are well-liked and well-respected. Thus, it puts other people at ease(使某人感到舒适) and also helps decrease the social distance between two people, making it easier to communicate. As it were(可以说), politeness is the foundation of strong relationships. Besides that, I am polite to others and vice versa(反之亦然), and in the course of time(久而久之), it can form favorable social morals(良好的社会风尚/道德).
4、Do you think people became more or less polite in your country compared to when you were a child?
你是感觉人心不古,世风日下啊?还是觉得国民素质提高了呢?其实这两个方面都可以,只要能说出现象和原因就好。比如说我感觉很多人越来越没礼貌了,因为大家总忙着看手机忽视了和其他人面对面的沟通,第二是因为很多人工作压力大,心情郁闷,所以就不注意礼貌了。
Personally, I feel that some people are getting less polite. Firstly, technology makes its own contribution to the losing of politeness through increasing indifference (冷漠)among people. For example, it is the dominance of mobile phone that has largely reduced the willingness of people to have face-to-face conversations with their family members. Besides that, the fast pace in modern society is another contributing factor to poor manners. Compared to last few decades, today’s people are inflicted with loads of work and are under much heavier pressure of all kinds. As a result, the majority of them tend to have too limited time to get out of their way to help strangers or to show good manners everywhere through minor details such as putting chairs under the table before they leave the food court.
5、In your country’s culture, how do you show that you are being polite?
有礼貌的行为:
注重仪表:pay attention to deportment
遵守诺言:keep promise
不说脏话:no bad words/swear words/dirty words
不抖腿:don’t shake legs when sitting
吃饭不发出噪音:don’t make noise when eating
没礼貌的行为:
插队:jumping the queue/cut in line
打岔:interrupting others s talking
背后中伤他人:backbiting others
吐痰/乱扔垃圾:spit in the public/ litter around
大声喧哗:speak loud in the public
6、Are we less polite with members of our families than with people we don’t know?
中国人讲究“大恩不言谢”,从而关系越近,“礼貌”反而就越不被重视,因为觉得会让关系“疏远”。拿我自己为例,比如我从来没有听过父母互相说“谢谢你”,或者在想让对方干什么的时候说“你可不可以。。。吗?”
Chinese people prefer “not to say thank you when a great favor is done for you” (an old Chinese saying), so the closer the relationship gets, the less emphasis is put on “politeness”, which is considered to have the potential of estranging friends and/or family. Take myself as an example, I have never heard my parents saying “thank you”, or “could you please …?”when they want a favor from each other.
7、Do you think we should be polite to those who are not being polite to us?
如果遇到没有礼貌的人,尽管心里不爽,但是也不能失礼,不要tit for tat(以牙还牙,针锋相对),还是要构建和谐社会嘛。
Although I would feel annoyed when being treated impolitely, I wouldn’t tit for tat. After all, politeness are the means of developing social relations and the backbone of a harmonious society.It will help to build up a more civilized society. Without good manners, people are easy to quarrel, get others furious and lower the efficiency of communications.